这些年，纵然你把我给屏闭了。但，你却不能抹去咱的关系。在我的立场，我并没有做错。是你。。。很久很久前，已经看不起你的弟妹了。我们为生活打拼着，过着简单的日子。我们没办法像你一样，穿金戴银。但是，我们并不需要为你是从，任何事情都得顺着你。

不会忘记你为我们和家里做过的事。但是，如果当初的牺牲是要换我们今天的唯唯喏喏，那。。。我情愿你不曾做过。

今天，是你自己把我们从你的生活里抹掉。所以，在母亲面前，别再说那些伤人的话和举动。

很久以前，你们一家的脸书里的照片，都是把外人称兄道弟，也把外人列在家人的相簿里。反而真正的家人，从不出现在“家人“的相簿，我已经心理有数了。那时，我还保留一丝希望，直到被你的儿子侮辱又侮辱，跟着也被你语言伤害又伤害，我决定放下了。我不会再期望，但希望你们都过得好好的。

The Corporate Story : The Goat and The Horse

There was a farmer who collected horses; he only needed one more breed to complete his collection. One day, he found out that his neighbor had the particular horse breed he needed. So, he constantly bothered his neighbour until he sold it to him.
 
A month later, the horse became ill and he called the veterinarian, who said, “Well, your horse has a virus. He must take this medicine for three days. I'll come back on the 3rd day and if he's not better, we're going to have to put him down.”

Nearby, the goat listened closely to their conversation.

The next day, they gave him the medicine and left. The goat approached the horse and said, “Be strong, my friend. Get up or else they're going to put you to sleep!”

On the second day, they gave him the medicine and left. The goat came back and said, “Come on buddy, get up or else you're going to die! Come on, I'll help you get up. Let's go! One, two, three...”

On the third day, they came to give him the medicine and the vet said, “Unfortunately, we're going to have to put him down tomorrow. Otherwise, the virus might spread and infect the other horses.”

After they left, the goat approached the horse and said, “Listen pal, it's now or never! Get up, come on! Have courage! Come on! Get up! Get up! That's it, slowly! Great! Come on, one, two, three... Good, good. Now faster, come on.... Fantastic! Run, run more! Yes! Yay! Yes! You did it, you're a champion!!!”

All of a sudden, the owner came back, saw the horse running in the field and began shouting, “It's a miracle! My horse is cured. This deserves a party. Let's slaughter the goat!”

Points for reflection
This often happens in the workplace. Nobody truly knows which employee actually deserves the merit of success or who's actually contributing the necessary support to make things happen.
LEARNING TO LIVE WITHOUT RECOGNITION IS A SKILL!

If anyone ever tells you that your work is unprofessional, remember: amateurs built the Ark and professionals built the Titanic.

我生命中最重要的那个人

身为家中的老么，因该很幸福吧。如果生在一个重男的家庭，也许，也不是那么一回事。但，我承认，我是幸福的，只因为我的大姐。她，比我年长十三年，十六岁就停学在社会工作只为了帮补家庭。

那年，我上一年级，大姐带我开学。我永远都不忘记，大姐拿着叉烧包等我下课吃饱后，她才去上班。在我小小的心灵，充满了疑问。。 。妈妈在家，为何她不来呢？当然，这是一个没有答案的问题。当我年纪渐长，第一次"阿姨"到来，妈妈二话不说，拿了最旧款的卫生棉，叫我绑上腰。手忙脚乱之外也充满了疑惑，干么会这样？大姐知道后，出钱把我所有儿童内裤换成黛安芬牌子的成人内裤，还买了那个年代最新款的卫生棉让我用，是用来贴的，才解决了我的问题。

从小学到中学年代，除了每一个月的零用钱外，大姐让我有了很多的第一次。在我十三岁的时候，大姐嫁了，异族通婚。虽然是马来同胞，但是姐夫非常疼我。所以，我和大姐的感情更好了。我第一次拥有名牌手表，第一次吃鸡扒，新年的衣服和鞋子，考车牌等等，都是他们给我的。

终于，我高中毕业了，虽然成绩不错，但大马的制度让我进不了任何一间本地学院。妈妈对我说，算了吧，你的运气不好不能进大学，工作吧，少钱也不用紧，反正都要嫁人。结果，我的大姐和在吉隆坡工作的大哥都不值母亲所为，合力把我安排到吉隆坡的私人学院，让我完成一件他们没有机会做的事情。那时后，他们都有自己的家庭和孩子，所以，我也半工半读，完成学业。

十多年后的今天，我也结婚了，热爱工作之余也没忘记孝顺母亲。虽然，妈妈是生我的人，但是，面对她，总是少了一种贴心的依赖。因为，我最珍贵的记忆，都是大姐的影子。如果真的有下一世，那，我还是要做你的妹妹。可以吗？